RESPECT FOR OTHERS
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for May 7.
Respect for others is woven deep into the fabric of recovery, my friend. When we take Step Seven and humbly ask God to remove our defects of character, we begin to shed the selfishness that once trampled on the people around us [Page 76]. The Big Book also reminds us in Chapter Five that 'we have ceased fighting anything or anyone—even alcohol' [Page 84]. That means we stop trying to control, manipulate, or disrespect others, and instead practice love and tolerance, which the book calls 'our code' [Page 70].
In Step Ten, we continue to watch for selfish motives and promptly admit when we're wrong, which is the very essence of respect—acknowledging that others have their own paths and feelings [Page 86]. And when we carry the message, we learn to approach the still-suffering alcoholic with humility, never forcing or arguing, but simply sharing our experience [Page 89]. Respect isn't just a nice idea; it's the foundation of every healthy relationship in sobriety.
Think of a time when your lack of respect for someone's boundaries or feelings caused resentment. How might practicing Step Ten help you respond differently today?
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This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for May 7?
The theme for May 7 is “Respect for Others.” Respect for others is woven deep into the fabric of recovery, my friend.
Think of a time when your lack of respect for someone's boundaries or feelings caused resentment. How might practicing Step Ten help you respond differently today?
That means we stop trying to control, manipulate, or disrespect others, and instead practice love and tolerance, which the book calls 'our code' [Page 70]. (Big Book: Chapter 5, pages 67-70; Chapter 6, pages 76-86; Chapter 7, pages 89-91)