They Assumed
Daily Traditions · October 26
She had a real grievance, and her lawyer was also a member. Bill W. called it the best story of its kind (A.A. pamphlet P-17). "A member, whose name and professional attainments are known on three continents, got hold of a letter which she thought damaged her professional reputation. She felt something should be done about this and so did her lawyer, also an A.A." What happens next is worth slowing down on, because nobody set out to involve A.A. at all (A.A. Comes of Age). "They assumed that both the public and A.A. would be rightfully angry if the facts were known." Assumed. Nobody voted, nobody was consulted, and two members simply took it as read that the fellowship stood behind them. The press did the rest (A.A. pamphlet P-17). "Forthwith, several newspapers headlined how Alcoholics Anonymous was rooting for one of its lady members — name in full, of course — to win her suit for libel." Then a radio commentator repeated it to an audience Bill put at twelve million people. "This again proved that the A.A. name could be used for purely personal purposes… this time on a nationwide scale."
Two members with a genuine grievance simply assumed A.A. was behind them, and twelve million people heard that it was. What have I assumed a group's backing for without ever once asking the group?
Grounded in: P-17, p. 55.
Tradition 10
"Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the A.A. name ought never be drawn into public controversy."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
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