A Stranger on a Deadline
Daily Traditions · November 14
A reporter rings the number on the intergroup site, because the paper is running something about the new detox unit and wants a line from A.A. The GSR takes it, since she is the one who answers that phone. She is careful. She says she can't speak for A.A. as a whole. She gives the meeting times, explains what the Fellowship does and does not do, and gives her name the way she gives it in the rooms — first name, last initial. The reporter is decent and barely interested in her. But a copy editor at ten at night has a house style, the paper does not print initials, and her surname is in the phone book. It runs on page five beneath the words Alcoholics Anonymous. She did everything right except the one thing nobody had told her: the decision about how her name appeared was never hers to make. A.A. put it as sharply as it can be put (Dr. Bob and the Good Oldtimers) — an A.A. "who permits his name to appear in the press in connection with matters pertaining to A.A." has broken this Tradition. Permits. Nobody asked her.
She did everything right, and how her name appeared was decided by a stranger on a deadline. What am I trusting somebody else to get right on my behalf, without ever having agreed it?
Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 11; Dr. Bob and the Good Oldtimers (the A.A. Grapevine, February 1969).
Tradition 11
"Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio and films."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
Daily Traditions is an independent educational resource from Recovery Starts — not official A.A. literature, not affiliated with Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, and not medical advice. The Twelve Traditions are the property of A.A. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition: short form 561–562, long form 563–566. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).