The Thirteenth Way Out
Daily Traditions · December 1
The book was finished before its name was. The title members favored in 1939 was "The Way Out" — until Fitz M. went over to the Library of Congress to investigate. He found exactly twelve books already titled "The Way Out." When word was passed around, Bill wrote in 1946 (A.A. pamphlet P-17), the Fellowship "shivered at the possibility of being the" Thirteenth Way Out — and Alcoholics Anonymous became the choice instead. Bill saw what the name carried: "That’s how we got a name for our book of experience, a name for our movement and, as we are now beginning to see, a tradition of the greatest spiritual import." The second-choice name prints the absence of names on the cover. And the book's opening pages made it a request (Big Book, p. xiii): "we urge each of our Fellowship to omit his personal name, designating himself instead as “a member of Alcoholics Anonymous.”" There was no Tradition yet. There was a title, a superstition about thirteen, and a decision that turned out to be doctrine.
A.A.'s name was second choice, and it turned out to hold the whole Tradition. What did I choose almost by accident that has quietly shaped everything since?
Grounded in: P-17 (Bill W.'s 1946 anonymity essay); Big Book p. xiii.
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"Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
Daily Traditions is an independent educational resource from Recovery Starts — not official A.A. literature, not affiliated with Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, and not medical advice. The Twelve Traditions are the property of A.A. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition: short form 561–562, long form 563–566. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).