OUR CHILDREN
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for September 26.
Our children are often the silent witnesses of our drinking days, and they carry those memories long after we've stopped. The Big Book reminds us that 'the family of an alcoholic' suffers terribly, and children are especially vulnerable [Page 122]. In recovery, we have the chance to repair these bonds — not with grand speeches, but with consistent loving actions. As we work the Steps, we learn to be honest, patient, and present. The Promises assure us that 'we will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us' [Page 84], and that includes parenting. Our children don't need us to be perfect; they need us to be there, sober and willing to make amends. When we live the program, we slowly rebuild trust and show them a new way of living — one based on principles rather than self-will.
In what specific ways can you show your children the change in your character, rather than just telling them you've stopped drinking?
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This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for September 26?
The theme for September 26 is “Our Children.” Our children are often the silent witnesses of our drinking days, and they carry those memories long after we've stopped.
In what specific ways can you show your children the change in your character, rather than just telling them you've stopped drinking?
When we live the program, we slowly rebuild trust and show them a new way of living — one based on principles rather than self-will. (Big Book: Chapter 9: The Family Afterward, pages 122-135)