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October 15

MY CHECKLIST, NOT YOURS

Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for October 15.

Recovery Einstein

Ah, the theme 'MY CHECKLIST, NOT YOURS' points to a core truth in our recovery — we each must walk our own path. The Big Book teaches that our inventory is for ourselves alone, not for judging others. When we take a searching and fearless moral inventory [Page 64], we do it to clear our own side of the street, not to hand someone else a list of their faults. I love how the book says, 'We have no right to judge others' [Page 67], and that we must ask God to help us show tolerance and love [Page 70]. So this checklist is a tool for our own growth — a mirror, not a magnifying glass for others' flaws. It keeps us humble and focused on our own recovery.

— Chapter 5, pages 64-70; Chapter 6, pages 83-86
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How often do I find myself mentally keeping a 'checklist' for someone else, and what can I do today to turn that attention back to my own inventory?

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What is the AA Daily Reflection for October 15?

The theme for October 15 is “My Checklist, Not Yours.” Ah, the theme 'MY CHECKLIST, NOT YOURS' points to a core truth in our recovery — we each must walk our own path.

How often do I find myself mentally keeping a 'checklist' for someone else, and what can I do today to turn that attention back to my own inventory?

So this checklist is a tool for our own growth — a mirror, not a magnifying glass for others' flaws. It keeps us humble and focused on our own recovery. (Big Book: Chapter 5, pages 64-70; Chapter 6, pages 83-86)