. . . AND FORGIVE
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for May 17.
Ah, forgiveness—what a tender and essential theme. In the Big Book, resentment is called the 'number one offender' [Page 64], and it destroys more alcoholics than anything else. Forgiveness isn't about excusing wrongs; it's about freeing ourselves from the prison of anger. The Fourth Step inventory helps us list our resentments, and the Fifth Step releases them. Then we ask God to forgive us and to help us forgive others [Page 67]. The Promises tell us we 'will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it' [Page 83]—that is the fruit of forgiveness. It is a daily practice, not a one-time event. Each day we ask to be shown the way of patience, tolerance, and love [Page 84]. Forgiveness is how we stay sober and at peace.
Is there someone you are holding a grudge against today? Can you pray for their well-being, even if you can't yet feel it?
Start each day with Einstein's Big Book perspective — a quiet moment before the world gets loud.
This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for May 17?
The theme for May 17 is “. . . And Forgive.” Ah, forgiveness—what a tender and essential theme.
Is there someone you are holding a grudge against today? Can you pray for their well-being, even if you can't yet feel it?
Each day we ask to be shown the way of patience, tolerance, and love [Page 84]. Forgiveness is how we stay sober and at peace. (Big Book: Chapter 5, pages 64-67; Chapter 6, pages 83-84)